Married Forever?!?

Well folks, it's starting to look like I'll be married forever.

Well, not really. I spoke to an attorney while I was in Orlando about my rights and things I could do if this continued to drag on. If he decides to keep this going until he's out of the military, then things will change dramatically and there are things I can do to get this over with. The dumbest thing I ever did was allow him to be the petitioner. WTF WAS I THINKING!?! However, even if I was...he would have never signed the papers. I'm sure he still hasn't. This man thinks I'm so evil and he hates me yet he doesn't want to divorce me? The Bell County courthouse is 9.8 miles from our front door and he's had the chance to turn them in for ONE MONTH now. He doesn't work, because he's being med boarded so he sits around all day. Doing what!?! I've checked with Bell County (I do so daily) and JAG on Fort Hood and not a thing has been done since 9/22 when I left and he turned in our initial paperwork. 

This is the stuff that makes me hate him. The stuff that makes me realize how sick he is and how he has this INSANE desire to need to CONTROL and MANIPULATE me and situations. I'm thankful for it though, because this is all a daily reminder of why I left him and no longer could be married to him anymore.

I'm sure he's doing it to spite me. The sad thing is he's only screwing himself. I'll be contacting his batallion commander once the holidays pass (Thanks Bethany for locating his cell in the AKO system!) since I can't get anywhere with his SGT. I'm not wasting time going through the chain of command. I'll go straight to the top. He's going to thoroughly enjoy sending me a check for $1400. Two months of spousal support since we are still legally married. 

Thanks Santa Clause! <3