As if you needed more of my drama, here is another round of fun e-mails between my husband and I. He's had the ability to receive the divorce papers now for 3 weeks. He chose to ignore his SGT's requirements and received them in his hands about a week ago. In TX, you can walk in on any morning at 7:30am and get divorced on the spot. Why this still hasn't been done, I don't know?
I offered to let him keep the spousal support he owes me this month in an effort to just get this divorce over with so we can both move on. Nice right? Well, in return I get a husband who wants to play around and not get things done. With that I say, no more games. Get the papers finalized by Friday or you will owe me another month of spousal support. Oh and by the way, January 1st is around the corner. Let me know! ;-)
What is so alarming to me is the fact he sends SO MANY emails in such crazy succession. Notice the time stamps on them all. It's as if he sits around in a rage for an hour and thinks of things to continue to say because he's so upset. Oh and he's talked to me like a civil adult? Right guys? I mean, you can CLEARLY see that he has based on the previous emails with f bombs and crazy tirades. HAHA. What a joke.
This whole thing has turned into one big laughable joke.
Michael,
I do not want to have to write you emails giving you ultimatums. You've had the papers for quite a while now and we should be divorced by now. I've asked you to finalize the divorce this week. If it is not 100% final by Friday, I will pursue my spousal support for the month of December. I've tried to be nice and forget about this months support, just so we can get this behind us. Now it's the middle of December and almost 3 months since I've left and three weeks since the papers were sent and we're still not divorced. I am able to check on the status of our divorce daily through Bell County.
I want to get this over with. I thought you wanted to as well, but I can't understand why you're not.
Shannon
I do not want to have to write you emails giving you ultimatums. You've had the papers for quite a while now and we should be divorced by now. I've asked you to finalize the divorce this week. If it is not 100% final by Friday, I will pursue my spousal support for the month of December. I've tried to be nice and forget about this months support, just so we can get this behind us. Now it's the middle of December and almost 3 months since I've left and three weeks since the papers were sent and we're still not divorced. I am able to check on the status of our divorce daily through Bell County.
I want to get this over with. I thought you wanted to as well, but I can't understand why you're not.
Shannon
STATE ATTORNEY is all I have to say, you forged my signature on official government documents. Want to play? Go for it.....
I'm getting it done you need to relax and move on with yourself, there is nothing else you should be writing me about or contacting me because of. MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE SHANNON.
The lease will be up on the 5th of Jan. You are the one who wanted to bring the COC into this and not deal with me and that is the reason this has taken so long. Don't look to me like I did something wrong. If you are going to pursue what you think you have rights to then go for it. I will say nothing of anything and do what I do. I have been nice to talk to you like a GROWN ADULT and let you know how and what is going to go down. You don't seem to get it and think for some reason that I am playing games. So do what you do and I'll do what I do, I'll just leave it at that...
Everything is done Shannon you have no reason to contact me anymore, I am currently moving out of the apartment and into the barracks. You can go to the COC all you want and say what you want. I am not going through them for anything anymore. You are not a part of my life anymore, I suggest you move on with yours. Although my gut is telling me you're having a hard time with everything, otherwise you wouldn't be making such a fuss over nothing. I will be in FL for X MAS and will give you a copy of everything if you would like. If you do not want to have contact with me then you need to give me an address for you and I can drop it in the mailbox for you. You can complain, cry, or even say whatever you want Shannon. It still is not going to change anything or the facts. YOU NEED TO MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE, after all this is what you wanted and brought about yourself.
GOODBYE SHANNON
I WILL NOT BE RESPONDING TO ANYMORE OF YOUR EMAILS OR ANYTHING OF THE SORT
IF YOU WANT TO GIVE ME AN ADDRESS THEN I WILL SEND TO THAT BUT I WILL NOT CONTACT YOU EMAIL OR IN PERSON
YOUR NAME CHANGE IS ON YOU BECAUSE YOU DID NOT FILL THE PAPERS OUT HOW YOU SHOULD HAVE
DO WHAT YOU DO GIRL AND DO IT WELL PEACE
FOREVER
I'm not having a hard time with anything except for the fact that you are acting like a complete ass. Back and forth, up and down. One day calm, the next day making threats. Precisely how our marriage was. It's sad. If I was ever having second thoughts about all of this, you completely affirm I'm doing the right thing every single time you start going crazy. Like I've said, the man I once loved is missing in action. He's gone and never returned.
Unfortunately for you, you're still enlisted in the military and have to abide by their rules. Rule says you have to pay me spousal support on the 1st of every month. I was trying to be nice and tell you to keep this months payment, so we could just get this over with and move on. You are choosing to be nasty and ignorant so I guess that means I don't need to be considerate of you. You can still get Article 15's, dishonorable discharge, etc. What would you do if they pursued the fact you violated your military protective order? You know they know about that right?
I don't live in Florida, contrary to what you may think...so have fun finding me there. I will not be there for Christmas either. And like I said before, if you show up on either of my parents doorsteps they are going to have you arrested for trespassing. They've already spoken to the police so I would advise not doing it. Come on, my mom works for the Sheriff's Office so what do you expect? The court will send me a copy of the finalized papers. I don't need you to do that.
I cannot believe I married such a person as you. What a fool I was! Do not concern yourself with my "getting over it." That was done a long time ago. I wanted to be civil and respectful with you, but you prove time after time you just can't handle that. How sad! I hope one day you get the help you need for your instability and rages. There is no need to behave like you are. Again, please forward me emails in which I have made ridiculous threats at you and went on cursing binges. Sad. Just sad.
You are right! Goodbye Michael! I'll go back to routing all of your emails to automatically be deleted now.
Shannon
Unfortunately for you, you're still enlisted in the military and have to abide by their rules. Rule says you have to pay me spousal support on the 1st of every month. I was trying to be nice and tell you to keep this months payment, so we could just get this over with and move on. You are choosing to be nasty and ignorant so I guess that means I don't need to be considerate of you. You can still get Article 15's, dishonorable discharge, etc. What would you do if they pursued the fact you violated your military protective order? You know they know about that right?
I don't live in Florida, contrary to what you may think...so have fun finding me there. I will not be there for Christmas either. And like I said before, if you show up on either of my parents doorsteps they are going to have you arrested for trespassing. They've already spoken to the police so I would advise not doing it. Come on, my mom works for the Sheriff's Office so what do you expect? The court will send me a copy of the finalized papers. I don't need you to do that.
I cannot believe I married such a person as you. What a fool I was! Do not concern yourself with my "getting over it." That was done a long time ago. I wanted to be civil and respectful with you, but you prove time after time you just can't handle that. How sad! I hope one day you get the help you need for your instability and rages. There is no need to behave like you are. Again, please forward me emails in which I have made ridiculous threats at you and went on cursing binges. Sad. Just sad.
You are right! Goodbye Michael! I'll go back to routing all of your emails to automatically be deleted now.
Shannon
I am so sorry you are having to deal with that! I hope he gets the divorce over quickly and you can both move on with your lives.
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