Maybe in the future...

"The only way to really know is to really let it go."

Friday's Fancies - Blog Swap.

Hello.  Hello.  Hello.  Today is my favorite day of the week FRIDAY and that means it's Fashion Friday and Friday's Fancies. 

It's Heather here from ...this & that... and I'm taking over Shannon's blog today!  Shannon's over at my blog today.  My blog is a lifestyle blog that covers a little bit of everything...hence, the name ...this & that...  It originally began a little over 2 years ago to chronicle my travel planning for my very first trip to Europe.  However, it has "morphed" quite a bit since then.  Let's see what do I blog about?  Travel, life (and I'm "newly" single gal so, upcoming posts will include my re-introduction into dating scene), laughter and little tidbits about ...this & that...  Oh, and let's not forget my creative side...I make note cards and knit scarves...my etsy shop Blondie's Shop.  Alright, enough about me let's get on with today's "Fancies".

Shannon and I are both taking part in the blog swap by Alison over at {long distance loving}.  I'm very excited to see what all of you wonderful follower's of Shannon's blog Eat, Pray, Love...LIVE think of my fabulous outfit choice for today.  By the way, I want to give a special shout out to Shannon and let her know it's been a pleasure getting to know her better (through this wonderful community of blogging) and by swapping blogs with her today.  I really enjoy the blogging world and the truly wonderful virtual friends I've made and the one's I have met in person too!  Shannon's a wonderful gal and I'm glad I met her.

Today's outfit is inspired by my trip to the Windy City this weekend.  You see I live in Phoenix and headed to Chicago last night for a bit of fun with friends and family!  However, I will say that I grew up here in the suburbs of Chicago so I am no stranger to the Windy City.  Anyhow, on with the outfit...  You see I am truly inspired by the chilly weather and I was hoping for a "white-out" but, I'm very sad to say it's not going to happen.  Yes, coming from the Valley of the Sun I was seriously hoping for a bunch of snow.  Bunches!  I love the snow.  Hence, today's themed outfit.

The look for today is not my own creation but does depict something that is "me".  I'm going for a white look with a "hint" of color.  And of course I needed an absolutely fabulous pair of white boots and coordinating bag.  Can you say yes?  I'd love for the fashion fairy to drop this sassy outfit in my closet (hint, hint).  Don't hesitate to leave a comment for the fashion fairy as well...you never know if the "fairy" is reading. 

Have a fabulous Friday and wonderful weekend!  Do share your fun plans...?  I'm spending the day with my Auntie Karen and we are heading to Portillo's for lunch.  Yum!  I plan on spending the weekend with my bestie and her family.

Don't forget to head over to {long distance loving} and check out what all of the other blogger's have put together for today!  And you can see Shannon's outfit over at ...this & that...

soft winter by kamilka featuring a zipper dress

Jil Sander zipper dress
£399 - theoutnet.com

Long coat
$795 - lagarconne.com

Giuseppe zanotti boots
$860 - stylebop.com

Mango shop handbag
£60 - mango.com

ASOS bracelet
asos.com

J.Crew stud earrings
$50 - jcrew.com

Two Years

2 - Two - Dos

While enjoying working in Mexico, I failed to realize this blog turned two on the 23rd! While it's true this is not my first or only blog, it is the one I hold closest to my heart and the only one I continue to document my journey in.

Blogging has brought me amazing places, allowed me to meet incredible people, and friend people I may never meet. I wouldn't give it up for the world.

I invite those of you who are new to my blog to travel back in time to the very beginning, when I originally began this blog as a way to document my struggles with infertility while trying to conceive. My life has changed dramatically in two years and hurdles I never thought I would overcome are now all but memories recorded in this online diary of sorts.

I wonder where I'll be two years from now...

Happy Blog-o-Versary to me!

Blogger Shout-Out

Just a quick shout out for my fellow Mexico traveling comrade and future soon to be not so really husband, Will over at "Wake and Wander." If you're into travel blogs or just want to live vicariously through someone who travels and writes about it for a living, check him out! He'll be sharing lots of our fun adventures in Cancun and Riviera Maya!

Permission to Be

The other day, I was deep in thought (as I usually am) about allowing certain people in your life. To me, allowing someone in is a privilege. It is not something that "just is" because you are family or share the same blood line. Not only does this apply to who YOU choose to have in your life but to those around you who choose to include you in theirs.

There comes a time when someone who once brought you joy and happiness, does no longer. They just aren't the same anymore. They've changed, as we know people constantly do. Perhaps you realize they haven't changed at all, ever, and it's time for them to go. Maybe this happened over time on your own or maybe something occurred in a violent, abrupt fashion to make you see. There's something funny about wanting to hold onto people we no longer need.

I feel that everyone comes into your life for a reason. The thing is, they truly don't have to stay forever. Sometimes you have to accept they were there, in that exact place and time, and served their purpose. That door is now closed and it's time to open another one.

Why is this such a novel concept that is so hard to grasp?

My firm belief is that if someone isn't pushing you forward, they are taking you backwards. If they are not lifting you up, they are taking you down. It's just not worth the time and energy anymore. We should surround ourselves on a daily basis with people who share our spirit and appreciate our inner beings.

Maybe I'm rambling after a lot of champagne and coffee and trying to distract myself from the mounds of homework in front of me. After the past few days I've had, this concept is ever present in my mind...

Better As A Memory

Yay! It's back!

After a long hiatus, Goodnight Moon's weekly song link up is back up and running. So, for this week, I stumbled across an old favorite of mine from Kenny Chesney. I forgot how much I love this song.

Enjoy and link up!

What Guys Can Learn from Tim Tebow

It's cool to love God.

There's something awesome about a man who loves his Lord & Savior and is unashamed. For whatever reason, finding men like this is a rarity these days. Men are to be leaders and Tim shows this day in and day out on and off the football field. We all know it's typically "not cool" to be a man and be open about your faith, regardless of your age or stature. It's hard to stand firm and have a voice for God. More guys should be so fearless and stand up for what they truly believe in.

It's cool to love your family.

First, it takes another strong man and God fearing woman to instill family values. The Tebow family has a solid structure and Mr. & Mrs. Tebow raised their kids with incredible values. Because of this, Tim is who he is today. He loves his family. He respects his mom. It's super cool to love your family and make special efforts to spend quality time with them.

It's cool to do for others.

We all know about Tim's caring heart and how he gives to those less fortunate and those who are in despair. There's nothing more awesome than a man who has a giving heart. A man who is thankful for his many blessings and gives to those who could use some extra ones. Volunteering and stepping out of your comfort zone to serve is really awesome.

It's cool to love kids.

Seriously, there is nothing sexier than a man holding a baby or getting down on the floor to play dolls or trucks with a child. Seriously. Loving kids is an awesome trait.

It's cool to be driven and have goals.

There's something about a man who knows what he wants, goes after it, and doesn't go down without a fight.